The Enemy Within

What is the enemy within? To me it is the fear, doubt and insecurities that we all have. It is the moment in life when you feel helpless or unsure of yourself and your abilities. You wonder if you have what it takes. You start thinking of all the challenges that you might (or probably will) face. You start to build up an idea in your head of all the obstacles that could get in your way. You start focusing on the challenges, not the successes and accomplishments to be achieved. We have all done this at one point or another. Once we get into this type of thought-pattern, our minds take over. It is like trying to stop a locomotive. We start coming up with excuses and reasons for why we can’t do something. It doesn’t matter what it is: writing a book, losing weight or starting a business. We must create an environment in our own minds that allows us to see past the pain and past the little failures that we will inevitably incur.

Our mind is powerful beyond measure. It is our mind that controls our day-to-day actions. We must be incredibly strict about what we feed it. We must fixate ourselves on the positive outcomes of our goal. We can’t continue to think about how hard or difficult something might be or else we might quit. We have to do as many writing sessions, workouts or sales calls as it takes, respectively. The single reason that we all don’t achieve greatness is because we don’t all believe it is possible. Thoughts always manifest themselves in reality. Have you ever met a person who was always talking about the bad things that happen to them? They have something bad happen and then they start expecting bad things to happen. They are now opening the flood-gates for negativity. As they continue to expect negativity, it continues to happen. It’s a vicious circle. Luckily, this same principle can be leveraged to achieve massive success.

A positive thought, especially one relative to your goals, will create a burning desire to help you overcome the inertia of procrastination and self-doubt. If we don’t consciously work to control our thoughts, they will be developed through other sources, like the news, other people, television, etc. If we allow these other sources to infiltrate our mind we soon begin to see the world through a limited and fearful lens. If we are constantly watching the news, we begin to see all of the disasters and crimes as reality; that begins to create a feeling of helplessness. We start to see a world of limitation, not opportunity. We start thinking of all the bad things that have happened in the world which causes us to become fearful and timid. The news is absolutely irrelevant to the pursuit of our own dreams. There is really nothing to gain from knowing about every petty larceny charge and traffic jam in our neighborhood. It is only negativity. Same with negative people. Don’t allow their negativity to rent space in your mind. Your mind is a fertile abode of positivity. This doesn’t mean you have to be rude to people but work to fill your mind exclusively with positive influences. Get lost in good books, watch motivational YouTube videos, talk to an inspiring friend or work on your goals. These little decisions, compounded over several years will separate you from the pack. They will irreversibly turn you into a better, more positive and inspiring person.  

Yes, you can.